tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669666292314469990.post8828846832599860997..comments2024-02-27T09:08:00.511+00:00Comments on what lauren did today: Opening UpLaurenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04600100155446464497noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669666292314469990.post-71725257303232971812016-02-01T03:38:06.446+00:002016-02-01T03:38:06.446+00:00Hi lovely, I'm new to your blog and am just no...Hi lovely, I'm new to your blog and am just nosing through all of your posts, I hope you don't mind.<br /><br />After reading this it brings back memories of when I got told my mum had cancer. It was such a horrible moment....all I can really remember from it was that a Robbie Williams song was playing in the waiting room (as if that wasn't bad enough!)<br /><br />We didn't know at the time but my mum's breast cancer was at stage 3 already before diagnosis. Then about a week later (July 2014) we got told it had spread to her liver....meaning it was stage 4 and incurable. The doctor never told us that it was terminal, they just said that they couldn't 'cure' it but could treat it. Like yourself, I went through all of the hospital appointments, the long days of chemotherapy and the worry and stress that came with every waking moment....it honestly is one of THE worst things to experience in the world. I lost my mum on 28th December that year, only 6 months after she got diagnosed. <br /><br />The way that you feel / felt then is completely justified. No one will ever understand or know what your feelings are / were. Not even someone that's been through it because everyone deals with it differently. So do not feel any guilt for that.<br /><br />All I can really say to you is to appreciate every moment with your loved ones, as I say to everyone. Your dad is one brave man and even though I do not know him, I'm happy that he's beaten cancers arse!<br /><br />Laura x | http://pale-girl-reviews.blogspot.comL A U R Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03578376235389528191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669666292314469990.post-9693438629306322312015-10-14T17:44:14.888+01:002015-10-14T17:44:14.888+01:00I think your feelings are completely justified and...I think your feelings are completely justified and probably felt by a lot of people in similar positions. I can't imagine how hard it must be to watch your dad go through this, but I'm so pleased that the treatment worked. <br />Cancer is a horrible thing, I've lost family to it, and it should definitely be talked about more. xx<br /><br /><a href="www.bethanlikes.com" rel="nofollow">Bethan Likes</a> <br />Bethanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02778426385838872277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669666292314469990.post-89807130365645721652015-10-13T22:13:05.068+01:002015-10-13T22:13:05.068+01:00Aww wish I could give you a massive hug xx Thankfu...Aww wish I could give you a massive hug xx Thankfully I've never lost anyone to cancer but my Aunt too had cancer and survived but I still get scared that the cancer will come back again. It's great that you've opened up about this, cancer is horrible to talk about but affects and hurts so many people x <br /><br />vvnightingale.comvvnightingalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10171532883249646611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669666292314469990.post-54497393731070990372015-10-13T17:56:57.975+01:002015-10-13T17:56:57.975+01:00Hope you're okay Lauren. My Gran was diagnosed...Hope you're okay Lauren. My Gran was diagnosed with terminal cancer almost a year ago and it really is the worst thing in the world to see someone you love hurting; your feelings are more than valid.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02768626352669218214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669666292314469990.post-34579245595550014452015-10-13T11:17:05.959+01:002015-10-13T11:17:05.959+01:00You are completely, 100% allowed to feel scared an...You are completely, 100% allowed to feel scared and sad about this lovely. It must be heartbreaking watching your dad go through this. I'm so happy to read his treatment worked though. You're so brave to write about your experiences, I'm sure it will help those going through a similar time. Hope you're having a better day today xx<br /><br />Roxie | <a href="thebeautifulbluebird.com" rel="nofollow">The Beautiful Bluebird</a><br />Roxie Watthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09939830827026530542noreply@blogger.com